“Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once an awhile, you could miss it.” Ferris Bueller
We all have the same problems: deadlines that are getting shorter, email inboxes that are choking on high priority fires to be put out, and consciences that strain under guilt because we’re so busy tending to urgent things that the important stuff gets push to tomorrow.
Then the next day. Then the day after that until we’re staring down the barrel of a new year wondering what happened to all of those goals and plans…and dreams.
I’ve spent the last week, as I do every year-end, looking back at 2010 and everything I did right and wrong (mostly wrong). What I learned wasn’t surprising but it was sobering.
Here it is in a nutshell. The single greatest contributor to the times I failed or was the least effective both personally and professionally: attempting to multi-task. And the close second: my unwillingness to say “no” when I knew I should have.
Both tendencies stem from the same problem, which is the inability to keep the main thing the main thing. When everything is important, nothing is and you end up living with no baseline for making good decisions. Life ends up happening to you. You miss it.
So in 2011 I’ll be focusing on a few things that I experimented with successfully during the last half of this year. Maybe there’s a nugget in here for you.
1. Say “no” twice as much as you say yes.
Everything is not equally important. Know what you want to accomplish and how to get there. When something peripheral comes up, you’ll see it for what it is: an obstacle.
