<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: My penthouse suite in the Tower of Babel</title>
	<atom:link href="http://kevinskaiser.com/2009/08/25/my-penthouse-suite-in-the-tower-of-babel/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://kevinskaiser.com/2009/08/25/my-penthouse-suite-in-the-tower-of-babel/</link>
	<description>I write about the creative process and my double life as a literary manager and writer.</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Thu, 09 Sep 2010 22:31:13 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2</generator>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
		<item>
		<title>By: Kelsie</title>
		<link>http://kevinskaiser.com/2009/08/25/my-penthouse-suite-in-the-tower-of-babel/comment-page-1/#comment-52</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelsie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2009 01:13:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://kevinskaiser.com/?p=353#comment-52</guid>
		<description>You have a good point. Facebook is both a blessing and a curse. This post made me think. 

I&#039;m lucky to have met my best best friends on an online forum (which just so happens to have been the Books of History search...sound familiar? ;) ) but I also have a bunch of shallow relationships on Facebook...relationships without the relationship.

You made me think. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have a good point. Facebook is both a blessing and a curse. This post made me think. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m lucky to have met my best best friends on an online forum (which just so happens to have been the Books of History search&#8230;sound familiar? <img src='http://kevinskaiser.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  ) but I also have a bunch of shallow relationships on Facebook&#8230;relationships without the relationship.</p>
<p>You made me think. <img src='http://kevinskaiser.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Caleb Pinyan</title>
		<link>http://kevinskaiser.com/2009/08/25/my-penthouse-suite-in-the-tower-of-babel/comment-page-1/#comment-48</link>
		<dc:creator>Caleb Pinyan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 01:30:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://kevinskaiser.com/?p=353#comment-48</guid>
		<description>You bring up some really great things in this post-- all of which I agree with. As a society we&#039;ve become obsessed. 

Really good stuff. The comparison of the internet and the Tower of Babel is a brilliant one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You bring up some really great things in this post&#8211; all of which I agree with. As a society we&#8217;ve become obsessed. </p>
<p>Really good stuff. The comparison of the internet and the Tower of Babel is a brilliant one.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jerry Beers</title>
		<link>http://kevinskaiser.com/2009/08/25/my-penthouse-suite-in-the-tower-of-babel/comment-page-1/#comment-45</link>
		<dc:creator>Jerry Beers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 14:01:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://kevinskaiser.com/?p=353#comment-45</guid>
		<description>Great post, Kevin.  Thanks for the food for thought.  I was thinking this week that FB helps me with some relationships because it gives you the occasion to participate in the &quot;real world&quot; life of friends you see only occasionally.  But it has to be followed up with deeper connections in person.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, Kevin.  Thanks for the food for thought.  I was thinking this week that FB helps me with some relationships because it gives you the occasion to participate in the &#8220;real world&#8221; life of friends you see only occasionally.  But it has to be followed up with deeper connections in person.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Jennifer</title>
		<link>http://kevinskaiser.com/2009/08/25/my-penthouse-suite-in-the-tower-of-babel/comment-page-1/#comment-44</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 04:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://kevinskaiser.com/?p=353#comment-44</guid>
		<description>Kevin,

Great post.  As you mention, publishers are now looking at how authors can engage a community.  But the goal isn&#039;t amassing a pool of nameless faces being asked to buy the next book.  It&#039;s about building a community of people who listen when that person has something to say-- a tribe of followers who feel rewarded by the give-and-take of interacting with that person.  And that requires active participation, authenticity, and consistency.  As Seth Godin notes in his book &quot;Tribes&quot;, you strengthen the tribe when you tighten it...a &quot;membership has it&#039;s privileges&quot; model whereby everyone gains from being part of the community.

Believing that all of these things are true, in my personal social media adventures, I want to connect with people I can learn from and those I can share with.  Sure, I can follow 25,000 people and I&#039;ll get more traffic on my blog.  But the constant question is this: by adding more people, will I find a handful I really want to engage with?  The logical answer seems to be &quot;yes&quot;, but it&#039;s finding the hidden gems that makes the work all the more interesting.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kevin,</p>
<p>Great post.  As you mention, publishers are now looking at how authors can engage a community.  But the goal isn&#8217;t amassing a pool of nameless faces being asked to buy the next book.  It&#8217;s about building a community of people who listen when that person has something to say&#8211; a tribe of followers who feel rewarded by the give-and-take of interacting with that person.  And that requires active participation, authenticity, and consistency.  As Seth Godin notes in his book &#8220;Tribes&#8221;, you strengthen the tribe when you tighten it&#8230;a &#8220;membership has it&#8217;s privileges&#8221; model whereby everyone gains from being part of the community.</p>
<p>Believing that all of these things are true, in my personal social media adventures, I want to connect with people I can learn from and those I can share with.  Sure, I can follow 25,000 people and I&#8217;ll get more traffic on my blog.  But the constant question is this: by adding more people, will I find a handful I really want to engage with?  The logical answer seems to be &#8220;yes&#8221;, but it&#8217;s finding the hidden gems that makes the work all the more interesting.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>
